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Bar See,
I have never left any message in your forum. But after reading your article, I felt that as a reader for av buzz for years, it is about time to give you some encouragement.
I felt really sad after reading your "Will" article.
Although I do notexactly know what is happening in your life at this moment of time. You seems like you have been overwhelmed by your own website. People, cost, your objectives, time, relationship with other people.
I can assure you that your web page is properly the best page I have ever seen regardless of nationality. You should be proud of yourself that you are able to come this far. All your efforts and hardwork finally has been recognized.
Bar See , in this world, no one is perfect, we are not meant to be. We born to be selfish and self center and self serve. That is why you have heard so many issues in relating to office politics, broken family and marriage....
You can not change people around you, but you can only influence them. You cannot control what they said about you, but you can control the dialogue generate within yourself. It is not what other people how they look at you, it is you how you rate yourself. ( This is the part you can control).
As long as you see your Big Picture at the end, and you are on the right track, who cares about what other people said. You cannot please everyone in this world.
If you look at succesful people, say Abraham Linolin, the founder of USA, he failed numerous time and experience nervous breakdown and loss of his wife and failed 10 times in election, but one thing that he never change, his will power, his Big Picture.
If you have a chance to watch a DVD called " Ultimate Jordon"
Michael Jordon spoke to the kid in the dvd, he said when you are in the court, you have people stronger than you and more powerful than you, and not like you. How do you win? You use your energy to figure out how to win rather than focus on -ve things. Things may seems impossible but as long as you have a bigger hearts, this is what it counts. This is what makes you stronger than the others, when everyone starts to give up and your persist, you really stretch yourself to the limit, that is how you break thru.
If you ever go to Gym, and do weigh lift, if you do weigh life 10 times each day, do you think your musucle will go bigger if you do that for months? Of course not, when you stretch yourself to do it 12 times, 13, 14 times, that is how your muscle get bigger...
I remembered back in 96-97s, when I 1st connected my 56k modem, my 1st expereince on internet, I saw your name on the news group and you have been very active ever since. I saw your web page become so popular, you are not only attract people in Hong Kong but Chinese lived in the other parts of the world. Your web page is important to all of us.
Just give you a quote:
"In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years"
"I am not bound to win, but I am bound to be true. I am not bound to succeed, but I am bound to live by the light that I have. I must stand with anybody that stands right, and stand with him while he is right, and part with him when he goes wrong. "
Abraham Lincoln
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